The Mistress called Destiny

Destiny it seems is a funny mistress. It reminds us always of an old quote

But once you find happiness you wish for it to last and in that you do a lot of stuff that might make other people unhappy. You believe that you are right and that you think of everything but the truth is being in your spot no one can predict everything and no one can see all the angles in your life, similarly you cannot as a person think of every small situation the other person is going through. So if you ever want to make plans, make them but always remember even the greatest of tacticians cannot account for the quirks of the mistress. Always be wise, make plans but always remember to also be prepared for the unexpected.

The thing about happiness and sadness as  Leo Tolstoy puts it is



You can be happy eternally but the unique shades of sadness that colour us are what we need to balance out. if you ever want to connect with people and stay as happy or possible or even love others you need to learn to love yourself first and then you can approach others and if you are ever lucky to ind the one person who loves you as much as you love yourself and if you can come around to loving him/her equally strongly then please ensure that you don't forget all the people who already love you and you love. The ones that kept you going in bad times should never be forgotten just because you have fallen on good times

Also remember that each person is unique in themselves and remember to respect that other persons life and opinions but i would also say when in love respect has no place. If you care about respect then you are not in love.  Sorry to say it but respect is something that is used to cover up where love should've been but cant. The best of us are lucky in a few places and sadly insufficient in other  places (not in the sense we normally think  but in an extremely normal sense of meaning) . This causes a few of us to cause pain to the people we love, sometimes so much that they never come back to us. The fact here is that if you ever loved that person you will let them go, if its meant to be it will be. In the wide vast universe there exists so many wonders that we cant even count and trust the universe. Even science preaches balance. energy and matter cannot be created from nothing, they are interchangeable and only interchangeable. But just because the universe is conspiring in all its magnanimity doesn't mean you don't make your efforts. even the universe could use help no matter how inconsequential. Also remember that time and patience are the strongest of warriors and in case you can find someone who you can love beyond  yourself remember to tell them this just theh way Frank Underwood says this about Claire



Finally don't ever be normal, always keep moving, for stagnation is eternal  death and try your best to be yourself because again as Leo Tolstoy put it

And finally